The growing popularity of Massively Multi-User Online Role-Playing Games (MMORPGs) is also giving rise to a new trend: real-life couples meeting for the first time through virtual worlds.
MMORPGs involve a high level of user involvement that usually demands hours and hours of character leveling and skill building to advance through the game. These worlds are typically designed to make it necessary to work with other players with complementary skills in order to advance or get the most out of the gaming experience. This need to interact with other users allows for the formation of bonds between players and reinforcement of both positive and negative emotions within the game. Because of this design, MMORPGs force cooperation and community involvement among its players.
Often, just as in real life, these situations which require a great deal of trust of the other group members, can foster bonds between group members.Working together to overcome obstacles and threats can become a bonding experience as players must rely on each other to provide different roles in their group, each one important in ensuring the success of the mission. These types of situations can provide players with a sense of community and belonging within groups. Players can become highly engaged and connected to their characters and the roles they play within their online community. These worlds in many ways can serve to fulfill the basic human need of belonging to a community and contributing to the survival of that community.
Individual relationships also form and can even sometimes transcend the virtual world and transfer to the real world into lasting relationships. More and more relationships are being formed through online communities and video games are growing in popularity as a place where lasting relationships can form. In fact, according to research conducted by Nick Yee, a research scientist at the Palo Alto research Center specializing in social interaction in virtual environments, 3 percent of male players and 15 percent of female players on the popular MMORPG, EverQuest, are in real-life romantic relationships with someone they first met in the game. The trend of meeting romantic partners through video games, although it may seem strange to some, is on the rise as online dating continues to grow in popularity. Players find the virtual world environment a less intimidating place where they feel they can get to know a person better through written communication and cooperation to achieve goals.
There have been multiple stories in the limelight about couples who meet in games such as Second Life, Halo, and World of Warcraft and decide to take their online relationship to reality. One such couple filmed their first meeting after five years of online dating through video games, and it went viral on YouTube. Watch the touching video.
Source: http://gamestudies.org/0901/articles/yee
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